I
am human... Just thought I'd clear that up.
I want to be
honest about being
normal...
(after all, I did only learn this lifestyle stuff a few years ago)...
and I want to share some things
to encourage you.
There's nothing
juicy here, just some simple
truth about every day life.
Ready?
Here it goes.
Healthy eating takes
work.
Surprised? Probably not.
My secret? I
hate that healthy eating takes work. I am a scheduler, but I
hate meal planning. Do
you despise planning meals,
too?
I really, truly
wish I didn't have to pack lunches every day of the school year
(but I do it to offer the healthiest options possible to my children). I know, I know: Someday, too soon, I'll be an empty-nester and wishing I still had kidderz at home to pack lunches for. I'll try to remember that and not complain.
I
wish I didn't have to cook breakfast and dinner
every day, trying to please the family, while keeping things healthy and simple, feeling like the
only thing
accomplished for the day is
feeding everyone. Then comes
the dreaded phrase, "We're having
that, again?"
(I guess that means I need to add a bit more variety, which, again, takes work.)
I remember what it was like when we
didn't know better. True, I still had to come up with ideas of what we'd eat each day, but buying something pre-made or mostly made was
a lot easier than cooking from scratch... and it
is the
normal thing to do.
It's
not that people
aren't smart or are too lazy, but some families haven't gotten
all the information they need to make
wiser choices..
like us in the past. We consumed more
processed foods back then. I
thought we were making healthy choices, but I didn't know
then what I know
now.
Sometimes I wish I
still didn't know the dangers. Sometimes I
wish life was easier.
However, there
ARE simple and quick recipes that
ARE healthy
AND tasty. In fact, I use
more spices now than I have our
entire married life to this point. There are some
mighty delicious recipes that we can prepare
without adding all kinds of
junk...
and the
family approves them.
Please note: I am
not an
amazing cook, by
any stretch of the imagination. There is
nothing exceptional about my work in the kitchen.
Anyone can do what I do. Follow a good recipe, and you'll
surprise yourself!
I am also
not a great baker
(really not very good at all). I always said I'd have to hire my
brother to be my baker and gardener, because
he was born with those skills and
I wasn't.
I
can follow a recipe, and if I find something that
works for my family,
it's a staple.
However, without using
"normal" flour and sugar, things
aren't working out so easy for me.
Sure, I share yummy recipes I come across... but
I can't always get them to look and/or taste nice.
There
are many wonderfully talented bakers and cooks out there, and
I recommend you look up recipes and tips from them... such nutritionists as:
Elise Scwartz
Kimberly Roberto
Lin Hardick
Though
I am
not a nutrionist, nor officially certified in anything, I
was trained in
nutrition and fitness in
three different
(awesome) jobs, receiving
job-specific certification in nutrition and fitness for one of those companies.
The reason I
started this blog was to
continue the
coaching that I was enjoying so much at that office.
Yes, I was a nutrition coach... and to this day, if you sincerely ask me, I'll be glad to give you some pointers.
People look for someone they can use as an easy
resource for these things... someone who is
(or has been) where they are, understanding the
challenges and
frustrations.
It was
mostly moms asking for help in the office, and so some of my
writing (No, I am not a mommy blogger!) might tend
toward moms. However, it's
not just moms that need to be
informed.
It's important for
everyone to stop believing the lies, and take a different angle to managing health... to be
empowered!
One way
our family has done this is by considering
our chiropractor as our main doctor.
Our plan is to use our
physician for
crisis care only.
You know: if an arm is falling off, or blood is involved somehow.
Years ago, my kidderz were at the physician's office
a lot, and they were prescribed medicine
all the time... but... since late 2010, I have
not bought
any medicines for them, and that means we have
not used
any over-the-counter pain relievers nor cold medicines. That's nearly
THREE YEARS! For two adults who
popped ibuprofen at the
slightest discomfort,
that's a major deal! 3 Years!
However.... here comes
another secret... more
honesty...
As I explain in
Our Crazy Mick's up Summer, that summer we had a few
strange issues in our family, and
I cracked.
I admit it!
I was
desperate to get
relief from my poison rash that had spread to
every limb. Realizing the aloe wasn't allowing it to
dry, and without doing
any research, I bought the
only thing I knew
(because of childhood experiences):
Calamine Lotion. Since then, I looked up
information to find that our parents and grandparents certainly
did OK by that.
Whew!
However, I'm
not so happy with my decisions for my son's
swimmer's ear.
I became
a normal mom, wanting to do
whatever was necessary to make my "baby" feel better.
First, I tried my best to use
home remedies, like peroxide, rubbing alcohol, garlic and olive oil.
Then,
worrying myself silly, I took my son to the
physician.
My
main concern was to be sure his ear was not being
damaged.
I was
relieved to find out
everything was fine, besides the fact that he had inflammation and
pain.
However, the doctor prescribed
antibiotic/steroid drops for the ear.
I
fought myself over the decision
to buy or not to buy. Much
against my
better judgment,
I gave in to the medical model, and I paid
way too much money for something that ended up just sitting
unused.
OK... I confess: I
did put a drop in his ear that first day or two,
but after
that, the medicine just
sat, and my son was absolutely fine
without it.
Am I
proud of this decision?
No. Am I
embarrassed?
Yes. Would I make that
same decision again?
No.
Do I
understand moms and their worries?
Yes. I'll say it
again:
Yes!
So,
please take heart that we are
all human, and we
might make mistakes
now and then...
but we
must move on and seek wisdom and discernment in
all situations to make the
best decisions we can make for our families.
... Oh, and I cheat, too. It's not much of a secret, but since I'm being honest here...
I still like my cheats: chocolate once in a while, and pizza ANY time (my downfall!).
The difference now versus before healthy living? At least now I know with cheats come consequences, and I prepare myself for those consequences: stuffy nose and sinus issues, headaches, stiff joints, tight muscles, grumpiness, fatigue, lower performance in exercise, slower brain function, and maybe even weakening my immune system to the point of allowing a cold to take over my body.
Because I know what'll happen, I do my best to only enjoy these cheats at times when I am not needing to be at "the top of my game..." and that is usually only once or twice per week, at the most.
Do
you have some things to be
honest with yourself about? Do you have some
guilt for some
wrong decisions?
Stop worrying about them. Face them.
Get back up. Then
move on. You will
learn from those mistakes, and
who knows... you
might just be able to
help someone else because of what you went through.
"We lose our way. We get back up again.
It's never too late to get back up again.
One day you will shine again.
You may be knocked down, but not out forever."
(
Toby Mac)
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"An honest answer
is like a kiss on the lips."
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